the man being the head
Ephesians Chapter 5:25
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
Ephesians Chapter 5:26
That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,
Ephesians Chapter 5:27
That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
Ephesians Chapter 5:28
So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
Ephesians Chapter 5:29
For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: